Re: Patrick G/Jude C
Dude, no, man, that isn't how getting to know people works. Privacy is a thing, man. You don't have a right to people's details. You talk to them, and you get to know them, and that is how this works. I think it's like that regardless of the town size. That's just how people operate. There's no quick path, my man. And people can't always tell you things about themselves, you're right, but you work it out along the way. Knowing people isn't exact. Asking questions won't get you the truth, dude. It'll get you perceived truth. There's no replacement for just hanging.
Not really. That implies newness. He's always been there, just not in my space. Con knows him better than I do. They are close in age. I'm a lot younger.