Re: Matt/Pj
It doesn't have to be always, and it doesn't always have to be "there." Come by and visit when I'm in a good mood. I'm loads of fun. I know sometimes your head is bad, maybe if you had a little fun that would help too. I'm just saying - We don't all always have to wait until the world is insane to say 'hey what's up.' Come by the fill up station, raid the pop machine, if you kick it three times in the right spot it spits out free pop. You don't have to if you don't want to, but like we've agreed. I'm great. Even greater when I'm not a basketcase.
It is awful to go through, and when someone who we care about goes through something awful, it sucks when we have to deal with it by ourselves. It might have made you feel better to have someone reassuring you what was normal and what wasn't for a change. That's what I meant. I'm sorry I wasn't able to do that, I know it's not my fault, but I wish I could have. If not to help him, then to help you. Its scary, but I've been there, done that, bought the tee shirt, sent the postcard, I'm a professional. :)
I hope so. I really hope this is a good idea for him. I don't know how different it is when you're given a choice in the matter, but I imagine it's better.