Re: connie/destiny
Yes, and yes. [...] Omg, you know him.
It sounds stupid to say, "Go slow and do what feels good," but that really is the basics of it. And there is nothing beyond the basics, it is just basics all the men. If we're talking about men, because men are super basic(usually). If he is into some weird shit, just dodge. There is too much emotional baggage that goes along with even like, mommy kink, you don't want to go there. As for riding the pony, save that for later, you don't want to tweak anything.