Re: flash/gwen
No. I didn't have them at first. I didn't dream at all until a month ago. I have the first instance documented.
Now I'm going to have to conduct a street survey, and I'll be known as the girl that asks uncomfortable questions about menstrual cycles. [...] I don't disagree. I just think insecurity is a super motivator in her actions.
He was trying to explain that dating didn't have to involve going on dates, and then he got super confusing about external input... I think? I'm not really sure. Here, this is part of what he said: "all right. so imagine you're in a room full of people. all speaking at once, and some of them are saying the sort of thing you'd like to hear but later, and some of them are frankly insulting. and in the middle of the room is somebody you'd like to hear every word. you need to shut out all the sound of all those people who'd like to go on talking, to hear that one person. and you can do it by going in another room, or tuning in to what they're saying, and ignoring everyone else. you're in a room full of people, sunshine. you need to locate a side-room or learn how to lean in and listen so you can't hear the rest of them, but you can pay attention to him."
See? People are super confusing.
[...] I know I ask for too much clarification, but I'm just trying to understand the situation. I don't want to mess things up because I don't have a good grasp of it.