What's happened to you? Are you the person pouring? I think people can be selfish and selfless all at once. The giver and the taker, the pourer and the receiver—they're both, aren't they? It's selfish to take someone, to let them pour into you without giving back, but maybe it's selfish to want to pour at all. Selfless too, on both counts. But, I think, in the case of your example, one well runs dry and the other overflows. An obvious metaphor, I guess. [...] No one said any of this was smart, but I think it is. What would we be without connection? [He almost teases her and says 'you,' but it's not the time.] Who were they, is that the question?
I loved her, I love her. I don't think that goes away, even if it changes shape. [...] It doesn't look good—what does that mean? For them? For her.