Re: Anon emails
Being brutally honest, that wasn't you being better at this. That was the drugs. And your family would probably prefer they got what little of you that they can have right now without the drugs, than to be better at bearing under their shit with them. I don't have ten family members, I don't even have one. But I can extrapolate.
So walk me through the practicalities. What happens when they say 'I've got the biggest load in the world, help me carry it around?' What are they looking for? Is it communication? Is it tracking down help?