Re: Anon emails
No, you can't handle it. It's not emotionally possible right now.
So now what? Beating yourself up isn't going to make you magically capable of what you're not capable of. It is, if I judge it correctly, going to make you feel worse. And if you're focused on how terrible you feel because you can't help, you're even less likely to be able to.
No magic bullet. Is this about not being able to help in the way a person needs, or that not being able to help is somehow signifying you don't love them?