Re: Audrey C/Noah NW
I said a few times that having stuff happen to you doesn't excuse you doing stuff to other people. I'm not excusing my mom and I wish you wouldn't say I was. And really I'm not defending what she did. It feels that way which I don't like bc I have to try to explain the complicated stuff to you which sounds like defense but it isn't. I don't want to excuse her I don't. But it is context and to me that's important in the case of my mom. It isn't to everyone and that's ok but to me it is. My mom's a rly sad fucked up person. I feel sorry for her and whether you think I should or not I love her but that isn't the same as saying it's ok bc she got fucked up or it's an excuse ok?