I ain't asking you to behave differently. I'm asking you to think about your words and if they'll hurt someone else. I don't reckon that's something you done a lot in your lifetime, but I just reckon we should be deliberate when we say things. I don't think you were deliberately trying to hurt her feelings. But being bothered ain't lowering oneself. Being bothered is just having an emotional reaction, honey. I ain't sure we can control those. We can control what we do with them, but the feeling's pure.