Re: Hannah S/Jamie M
But you're still saying it makes someone worse. It makes Marta worse because it makes her more complicated for someone else, and that isn't even about her and why she does it. Maybe she's doing it because it's what she wants to do, or maybe she's doing it because she needs to. You won't ever, ever know for sure, because some people don't want to be seen as victims. What you think you know isn't really the truth always. But, Jamie, any woman who lets men hurt them for money has big, big things going on, okay?
But you're upset for your friend, and you don't really need to think about Marta. I understand that. I do. I'm not saying you need to care about her.