Re: Iris M / Sam A
Sam, I know you're trying. I can tell just because you're here. And I'm glad you're trying, and it's good. It is. But think about this enough to make a decision. If you need help with anything, say so. You can hate me for saying it, but I've lived the past few years figuring you hate me already, so maybe it has to be me. Make up your mind. If it's hard, ask for help. Once you've made a decision, you can move forward, whichever direction that is. But if you do nothing, there are so many things that can go wrong for both of you. You have enough on your plate without adding even more things fucking up.