Tandy Bowen doesn't have to pick between (cloakndagger) wrote in repose,
Re: tandy/noah
only when you're confident of your other gig. what's your other gig?
so she made your thing about her and wouldn't accept that it wasn't about her? zero perspective. it didn't read like it was about her, but if you're mired deep in your own shit, everything is about you. my mom is that way. if she's affected by it, it was all about her to begin with. don't let the anon make it about her for you as well, because it wasn't.
and you did. pretty articulately and i think people do care, if they're dangerously close to losing perspective or they think they're alone. going through stuff can be a pretty lonely place. realizing other people don't have it perfect and also aren't like, monsters because they aren't perfect matters. which is a fringe-benefit to your personal thing. and yeah. it read like 'here's some perspective'. idt anyone thinks you're not well-intentioned, noah. or thoughtless.