Tandy Bowen doesn't have to pick between (cloakndagger) wrote in repose,
Re: tandy/noah
i'm not going to take your time/$$, man. i can figure it out, and the bar thing is there.
weird about it, like defensive? i don't think you can super-rely on the anon to be 100% non-confusing anyway. she sounded like she was deep in her own shit. and people deep in their own shit don't have a lot of perspective. i don't think your post was shit-stirring or divisive. i figured it was exposing the corrosive myth that people who are happy don't have stuff going on and that if you're unhappy, happiness is not about dragging other people down. and i also figured it was about you dealing with being talked about rather than to.
how did it make you feel to write it, tho? pre-anon. because maybe that was why.