Re: secret santa/jamie m
Get to know them. Does that sound too easy in an invalidating way? If you don't know them they probably don't know you either.
I meant in the grand scheme of things there are worse things. How do you know it's going to be about sitting around and being sad? Have you tried it? I'm not sure we can know what things are like until we try.
I'm here to grant your wish, but you sound pretty down and negative. I'd love to turn that around for you somehow.