Re: secret santa/jamie m
How is tried and failed any different than it not holding up? I think you can fix things that break. How did it break? Do you love each other? Love seems to be the glue in my experience. Family isn't the same as friends.
I don't think hurting your knee is the worst thing that can happen. It might feel like that, but there are terrible things that are worse. Why don't you make new friends and live as people with them? There have to be other people that got too old or too hurt to dance. Have you looked for online meetups?