None of you will have normal lives until you stop feeling so sorry for yourself. She's effecting the team. She's been sat. She's got a drinking problem. Patrick punched you in the face - which you deserved.
Tell me - what did you think would happen? Everyone might cheer for you and say well done, good job? You two acted like entitled children for almost ten years.
It's a giant problem. A problem that spans so many avenues of my life and I am so bloody sick of hearing about you and Alicia.