"Since we are talking about such a serious topic." she blinked at him for a moment and then sighed, "Harry and I are together," she held her hand up, "I know what you think, he's old enough to be my father, he was mentor, but I have loved him for awhile and he loved me. I won't say we will live happily ever after, but..." she looked at her brother, "We are going to see what happens. You don't have to like it, but I want you to respect it enough that you won't hold it against him. I pursued it."