Ianto.
Well, I think that goes without saying. Same thing as when I compliment a certain person's suits.
And the man you fell in love with will always be inappropriate and flirt with anything and everything. But at the end of the day, I know who I come home to and that's the man I fell in love with. It's not something I think about. I know it will happen, but if I have anything to say about it, it won't be happening for a long time.
And yes, you should feel special. It's not every day I propose marriage. Try to keep it to once a century if not longer.