Well, as I've learned throughout my time, you can't always get what you want, love. I don't care what your friends think, or what they're capable of. It matters to me what you think however. But, I believe you made that known on some level that you agree with them. That I would hurt them. Unless you wanted to voice that you're rightly powerful? In that case, continue. I don't mind a woman with an exceptional amount of confidence. I find it remarkable.