Amy/The Doctor
It's all 'what you've heard' which isn't entirely correct - or actually even nearly correct! So stop. River has obviously told you what it felt like and not what was actually said, which are entirely different things.
I don't want to change River, but I do expect her to respect that I'm not hers yet, however much she might wish otherwise. Actually, right now I doubt she does, which is okay.
I have hurt your daughter, Amy, though it was never my intention. If you forgive me or not is your choice, not mine, but I've tried so hard to juggle all these feelings everyone has, but it was inevitable that I mess it up eventually. Now I have to back off and let everyone cool off, and look after Clara.