Mum | Mels
You're right though, Mels. If she can't handle it, then it's an issue with her own self-esteem and not you. And if she's the one he picks, then he's the one who has to deal with her insecurities, not being upset that you're telling him what's what.
You can't stop being you, and you won't stop being you. I won't allow it anyway. But something's got to give here.