Oliver wrinkled his nose, "even if I wasn't visiting you knew where I was," he defended himself firmly, "and, if you had asked I would have come to you. Or sent you an owl. Or something. .. unless there was Quidditch," he continued awkwardly, "and then... I might have... ignored all of your owls until a few years passed and I noticed them."
He smiled sheepishly. Okay, he could be just as bad, just not in these circumstances. He hoped.