Re: the banner-if you click the "click here for the code" the person has several other varieties as well as the one I have. If you go to my lj of the exact same name, you can also see a different on on my profile page. I am straight (more or less), married for 15 years, with two kids but it's dear to my heart as well.
H/G it's like this. I think JKR did a poor job of showing that Harry really loved Ginny and that Ginny wasn't just fangirling him. For example, not that I am shipping them, but I do feel Luna understands Harry so much better-the thestrals, the veil, after the battle in DH-she was the one that knew he wanted to be alone for a while. And I also have a problem with Harry marrying his mother. ;) Well, and Ron too. Yikes.