I love your traditional marriage banner! Do you mind if I gack it? My best friend boscobear71 is gay (yes, I'm a bonafide, card carrying hag *grins*)and this is a subject near and dear to our hearts.
On the subject of Harry/Ginny, I don't mind so much that JK put them together, but I don't want to see anyone else do it because, Yuck! Don't want to read about that in detail. ;) I really love all these post DH fics where Harry ditches her.