[If you think Alex'd respond to that more than he does, you'd be surprised. He's capable of not being a total toolbag, sometimes. And maybe he'll just pick back up on that subject later. Especially if he ever sees Kitty...]
I've only ever told one person before. And she was just as twisted up, but in other ways. [So she didn't get it the way you do.] It's not exactly something you can dump on people.