harbors clients or coworkers at his family's vet practice, a best friend, a roommate and/or neighbor in a duplex, exes (f) including the big one, people into retro gaming and sci-fi, folks to hike/camp/sail with, anyone he might know from new york, the jewish girl his mother desperately wants him to marry, his two sisters and various cousins, anyone in their early 30s he might've grown up with