Genre is good to know because then I can narrow it down by band. Right now I really am into E.S. Posthumus's new-ish album. There's not a song on there that sucks, no lie. If you like the cinematic style Immediate Music is good too, and I have a lot of them.
Orphan Hate and Flowing Tears are kind of like Otep, have you heard them? I have a bunch of those too. The lead singer of Orphan Hate had me fooled at first. Seriously thought that was a dude.