I did, yes, but... Well, I think for many in the Chantry, becoming a Templar, or a Chanter, or whatever our individual callings... the lives we lead have never been just one of many possible outcomes. To me, a Templar is simply what I've always felt I must be, as long as I can remember. Does that sound strange? I'm afraid I don't know what you do, perhaps you've never felt the same.
On the other matter, I fear we'll have to agree to disagree.