I don't understand that kind of logic. You shouldn't have to love someone because of your relation to them. If they treat you horribly, they treat you horribly. Why bother?
I'm all for the family is family thing, but you don't understand my father. You don't know him. The way I was raised, the stuff that I did to destroy everything that he tried to teach me. The Great Wall of China has nothing on what's been built between us.
I don't think there's a big enough wrecking ball to tear it down either.
[ooc: The Society has many distressed followers who understand your pain. D:]