No, you're being selfish. That's not considering all of the sides here.
See, there it is. Your complete and total lack of faith in me. You didn't have to be around to make sure that it didn't happen. Do you really think that I would?
I deserve to know, Dad. What if I was keeping some big secret from you? One that concerned you? Wouldn't you want to know?
[ooc: he's already got it bad enough with the jo situation!]