I know a few girls who would act like that, always blaming those a lilttle less sure of themselves. Well, don't dwell on it. No one knows your history here and we're certainly not going to judge you. Well I wont.
I'm quite glad you didn't know about the war before I mentioned it. A lot of people keep mentioning to me about the book someone wrote. I have been meaning to pick it up and see how accurate it is.