Clark
They usually don't. Zod and Ursa had me in a transported Kryptonian prison cell called Fort Rozz. Because I was born there I was the only Phantom able to have a physical form. All of what you said sounds exactly like him, minus the making out with Lana and wanting to use her to make a new race. He's pretty devoted to Ursa, but maybe they haven't found each other again in your time.
He's back in the Zone where I come from, both he and my biological mother. They don't have physical forms. All those other things? As right as could be. The last time I saw him I was seven, but I still remember everything.
That's because I'm not like him. The time that I was with him and Ursa, they were the worst parents you could possibly imagine existing. He was always worse than she was. No, I agree. That doesn't sound the least bit intimidating. My birth name is Lor-Zod. That might work better.