It has everything to do with everything. When your house was damaged, you had Xander to rebuild it. When you had money troubles, I worked out your finances for you. But when Willow took away my business, did she or anyone else help me find another source of income to make sure I would eat or keep a roof over my head? I may have been a demon, but that didn't last forever. So I'm asking, when I became mortal again and had no business and no identity with which to find a new job and no form of income at all, did she do anything to make sure that I didn't end up on the streets?