I don't know why things worked out for me. I don't have the magical answer. What happened to me was different. What I did was different.
The fact is, you caused this. You could have handled it differently. You could have made more of an effort, instead you bitched at me, like you always do. Blaming me for your behavior is definitely not part of Redemption 101. If any chances have been taken away, then it was your doing, no one elses.