Eve
I am well aware of that as a mother myself and I won't get into his reasons or not. In this city reasons are made every day. I wasn't acting as his parent I mearly reasoned it might not be a good idea.
I don't agree. Of course its hard to understand. My daughter, at age five had to understand why her father was changing before her eyes into something she couldn't comprehend. And she understod enough to know that yelling about it wouldn't help anything. She was scared, she was traumatised. Ben acted as he felt right, I mearly disagreed and believed it a bad course of action. I told him so and I stand by that.
I'm sure he will. I just think it didn't help matters and I've told my husband the same thing.