She's working on decorating Ailyn's room, and by working I mean she's ordering the staff around. I'm sure I can keep her in there for a while if you want to sneak in the back door?
Yeah, Earth people do make things complicated!
Honestly? Mirta won't allow Solo in the Lux, but the one thing I will give that man credit for is he doesn't seem to want to cause any trouble. I don't think he would be offended by not being invited, especially if you explain why.
Invite the people you want. It's your wedding, yours and Dean's, so do what makes you happy.