Ruby
I don't know. Trouble is, if I offer suggestions, how can we know that you're not just doing something because I've said so? Like I tell you to rescue kittens, wouldn't we all think you've done it because you think I suggested it because it would be something Sam would like?
Being honest, even with yourself, is so freaking scary. I mean give me an Apocalypse over that any day. But that's still what you gotta do. Be genuine and stuff.