Talking to someone who responds to you via the internet is not stalking. And you are aware that we can't all be out saving people every second of every day, right? If I could do that, I'd be pretty damn impressive.
You don't do the things that you do because you're nice and want to help people out. You do it because you're a liar and you need to win people over. Lex Luthor was the same way. But unlike you, Lex was good at what he did.