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You're so fine with disagreement that you're deserting your family.
They have legs do they not? They can leave the city under their own power. And if you talk to them and they refuse to answer? I already know you won't allow threats, magic, telepathy or any other method to get the information they have. Are their secrets worth other people's lives? What makes their lives more important than everyone else's?
If he wanted to save her the stress of this conversation, he would have to hide its existence from her. I will not force a man to keep secrets from his partner.