Claire
Not at all. Again, churches were invented by men. You could get married in the middle of a field and as long as the feelings were true, it would be valid in the eyes of God. Possibly not in the eyes of the law, but I'm hardly an expert on that.
I doubt it. If God has an opinion on the matter, I'll probably be told beforehand. Even the Almighty knows when timings aren't appropriate. Sometimes.