Re: Mary
I never said you had to stop seeing Sam, I just said that I'd appreciate it if you both spent more time here. Not supervised, under the microscope time, not us babysitting you two, just normal time together. You're more or less a package set these days, and if you won't come here to spend time with him here, then he doesn't come much either.
What I DO object to is the great amount of alone time you're spending with Sam. He needs to be with his human friends and family sometimes too, and I think the best solution would be for EVERYONE to be together.
If you're so foolish that you cannot see that, so stubborn that you cannot make a step toward giving the person you claim to care about so much what he needs, then I don't want you around a small, impressionable child.