[Ruby]
It was my body you were in, not his. What else could you possibly think are his motivations than wanting everyone in one place where he can look out for everyone?
So you're not matchmakking, but you're definitely all over the idea of saying this all more than it is. So what are you doing? I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm glad you're not announcing what you know to everyone, but I'm not following. You have to know that what's going on is best, especially for Ben. He doesn't need to know anything's changed, because neither of us want him to get hurt.
As for trust, Dean and I had that long before sex ever entered the whole thing and we'll have it long after too.
I know you don't hate him and I know he doesn't hate you. It's part of the whole way you two are, just like Ben can't get you to say Dean's cool.
[ooc: *DIES* What possible motives could she have? Now I"M baffled! xD]