Barry wasn't sure if he was ready to have a child either. Hence his wandering and thinking. Because even if they were allowing Arva to raise it, it would be his child and it would exist and he would know that it was out there. And that was a heavy thing to know.
"Again, I'm hardly an expert, but if you want to meet a potential babydaddy, you might want to try socializing a little more often," he teased gently. "Maybe hit up more bonfires."