Different terminology and everything. They're just the ones out on their own because they don't want to play nice, so they got booted or chose to leave and go it on their own.
I come from a long line of werewolves too, but we accept bitten and born all the same, basically. But it's kind of interesting that the women you've seen bitten have wound up in the same situation, well, sort of same. I'm up for swapping stories any time. You might even be able to use it after the shitstorm above, buddy.