I'm more than happy to divulge my baby's father's name because that makes sense, but I absolutely will not under any circumstance start listing off my conquests like notches in a bedpost. There's no need for that. That's a huge invasion of privacy, not only of mine, but of my partner or partners should they wish to keep the encounter between the two of us and it serves no purpose other than boasting. It'll breed jealousy which is exactly what I thought you wanted to avoid.