Mary | Pepper
I do think it's important to be fully informed on the decision you're making when you have a child, so I don't fault you for that. Some of us don't mind you asking questions, I mean, I'm happy to share my experiences with you and to spend time with my daughter if you wish, but it's definitely a matter of knowing when is the right time to ask.
I'm sure she'd appreciate the apology, but I'd advise waiting a bit until she's a little more settled or after Christopher leaves to go with Arva.