And respect is often found in being honest, upfront, and treating the other with the same amount of equality you see yourself as. If not a bit more.
Regardless, Lady Crawley, I wasn't trying to be forward. Just saying you're an incredibly beautiful woman, and covering up too much when you have such freedom in this climate and with these people, would be a shame. Then again, if those furs are what you deem beautiful, then self-image is far more important than what I think is beautiful.