Its what she did best. Push the right buttons, hit the right nerves. She'd convinced Dean not to exorcise her because she was helping Sam and she had gotten into Sam's trust by pressing him about Dean. But that had been common knowledge
"Its what you care about most. Your family. Dean. Thats the way in, thats the weakness. We all know it. I'm the only one that doesn't use it to hurt one or the other of you. But its true isn't it.?"
But he didn't want to talk about it, again, same as always, it was the same old tune weather said or sung and she was getting pretty dammed sick of it
"You never do. But I didn't ask to talk about it. I asked you to look me in the eyes and tell me you didn't think about it. Its your choice after all, like everything I've ever asked of you. I'm not here to force you down any kind of path. I'm here for you. I know you believe that even if most likely, you want to punch me right about now. And hey if it makes you feel better then go for it."