Um..I think around 14, 15 or so. Playing around with my bf(now ex, yes!) and we got rough and just tried a whole bunch of kinky stuff one day, because he liked it and wanted to see if I'd like it too. And I learned that I liked a lot of it! And it was soo fun. But yea, sorry it's not detailed...he's my ex now so I really don't even like thinking about him. Ugh.