*purses her lips and thinks she may ask your mother what she knows about this*
*gently* Darling, let me tell you something about your grandfather. There are a few things in this world that he holds close to his heart. You, your mother, the kingdom, and me probably in that order, even. There isn't a force on Órë powerful enough to tear anything from Elu Thingol's heart once it's planted there.
*resists the urge to take herself straight to your side this instant, instead smiling a soft smile down the line* I promise you, no matter how angry he might be, he will always love you.